424: What Rules & Beliefs do You Need to Shift the Shitty Feeling



I MAKE THE RULES
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Well, not *the* rules, my rules.
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I thought for sure my first Thanksgiving as a single woman would cause me pain…
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That I’d regret the things I did and didn’t do.
That I’d feel alone.
That I’d feel like I failed.
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Looking back – this year wasn’t easy by any means, but it had massive wake-up calls.
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Becoming the woman I am now required me to lean into my vision and embrace decisions that while mostly uncomfortable would form me into the human being I am today.
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2018 was a year of process for me.
2018 was a year of experiencing the visions I created in my mind.
2018 was a year of deciding exactly what I want.
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According to “the rules” I should be unhappy, I should hate my ex and I should already be in a new relationship.
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But that’s not what’s happening and it’s not happening because…
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I. Make. The. Rules.
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Not your rules, my rules.
Not my family’s rules, my rules.
Not an American’s rules, my rules.
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Rules are beliefs.
Rules are your code of conduct.
Rules are freedom.
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—> It’s the day before Thanksgiving in the US and for some, it’s a racist holiday.
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And while I am in full appreciation of who I am…
And while I am going to offer you an exclusive invite to a new program…
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I’m not going to say Happy Thanksgiving or offer a Black Friday Sale.
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—> I’m not fully on board with either of the sentiments.
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One glamorizes colonization and genocide.
One exploits people’s feelings of lack.
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Take it or leave it, these are my rules — My beliefs.
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I consistently re-frame any negative feelings I have about any subject by starting from the top…
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-> My culture
-> My family
-> Myself
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…To decide which rules or beliefs make sense to me.
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HEAR THIS: Your discord, discomfort and unworthiness has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU…
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It has everything to do with the beliefs belonging to someone else applied to your life.
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That’s why every single day I show up…
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-> Online
-> On MP3 (haha, that’s the podcast)
-> On email
-> On DM/PM/text
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—> Each day I help all my people dismantle the adopted beliefs they take on as their own that make them feel like shit.
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I help people shift the shit.
I help people break lineages of unlovable.
I help people finally feel enough.
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If you’re ready, here’s the invite I mentioned earlier, you can join me for a brand new program – Shift the Shit, beginning in January 2019.
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It’s totally new.
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I actually *paid* someone to develop it with me, because I know dismantling cultural and familial beliefs are what’s necessary for men and women to finally feel worthy – to finally experience love in the deepest meaning of the word.
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If you want the details just email me with a “hell yes” in the subject line! lauren@laurenherrera.com

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